Rules for Working Together as Married Couples

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Whether you both work at home, own a business together or are colleagues in the same company, working alongside your spouse offers great advantages and some unique challenges too.

On the one hand, you get to see your beloved throughout the day. When you talk about what’s going on at work, the other person knows exactly what you’re talking about. You even have a built-in carpool buddy.

On the flip side, keeping personal feelings and situations separate from work can be a challenge. It can be tricky navigating back and forth from the spousal relationship to the professional one. Add coworkers, employees, clients and bosses into the mix and complicated situations can arise.

These tips will help both of you survive and thrive side-by-side is a business setting:

1. Stay out of your spouse’s business. If she has a problem with a coworker, trust that she will sort it out without your interference; it’s not your duty to give Bob from accounting the stink eye because he critiqued your sweetheart’s report.

2. Be sure to circulate with other colleagues. Seek out other coworkers during breaks, lunches and meetings; it’s good career-wise and personally to nurture professional relationships with others. You two don’t have to do everything together. Avoid forming your own exclusive, two-person "Spouse Society."

3. Leave the personal business at home. If you have a fight with your spouse, don’t bring it to the office and certainly don’t hash it over with other colleagues. No one wants to hear it and it doesn’t do anything to enhance you or your spouse’s image.

4. Respect your spouse’s time. Just because you’re married doesn’t mean you can expect him to drop everything when you show up at his office door to talk about what’s for dinner.

5. Treat your spouse with the same courtesy that you’d extend to your other coworkers. That includes a professional, courteous tone and no overly emotional reactions or outbursts. Save the pet names for after hours.

6. Create the environment to do your best work. One couple that works together in a home office frequently hears friends say, "Oh, we’d both go crazy if we were together all day." It doesn’t have to be that way. If you need a separate office with a door so you can focus on your work in silence without hearing your spouse wheel and deal on the phone, set up the environment you need to be successful.



Anne Leedom is the founder of TeenPalz.com