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Queen Elizabeth

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How Do You Deal with a Material Girl?
« on: February 19, 2011, 05:45:27 AM »
Admit it. At some point in your life you have come across a woman who is plainly after money or gifts. Some even go as far as hoarding out the cash in you, in an indirect manner of course. Men who fall in love could care less, choosing to accept a woman for what she is and of course to ensure that she is under their wing. But is it worth all the trouble for not being loved at all?
In fact, you may want to think of it when you do run into them. Would you pursue them or simply move on and look for someone better. It is hard to fall in love but it is equally hard to be made a fool. Of the two, the latter seems to be the better option. Why waste your time on someone who doesn’t even show you sincere love?

Everyone needs somebody but materialistic females are certainly something they can do without. Be wiser. Don’t let your heart overrule you. In the end, you heart will be thanking you since such a reality may be to burdensome for people who fail miserably in finding true love in society.
What's your opinion? How Do You Deal with a Material Girl?

Still Waters

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Re: How Do You Deal with a Material Girl?
« Reply #1 on: February 22, 2011, 05:45:13 AM »
 As a Smart Dater, there should only be one way to deal
with a materialistic girlfriend: you cut her off from your
resources and see if she still sticks around.

Don’t take her out for expensive dinners.

Don’t buy her gifts.

Don’t pay for her when you go out.

But at the same time, continue to give her care and
your attention – without paying for it. Keep flirting with
her and teasing her. Keep having a fun time with her without
doing any of the materialist things you used to do for her.

If she continues to date you, then this woman is a
keeper.

But if she shows any signs of annoyance because
you’re not spending enough money on her anymore, then it’s a
sign she’s NOT worth keeping!

Be careful. She will probably throw a fit and try to
make it sound like it’s not about “money” but “care” and
“appreciation”. She may even use the guilt trap to make you
feel guilty for thinking that she’s after your money.

Don’t fall for it. Always look at her actions, not her
words!

ivy

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Re: How Do You Deal with a Material Girl?
« Reply #2 on: February 28, 2011, 12:23:15 PM »
Whenever you are interested in someone as a potential wife or long term partner, it’s important to know her views on each of the five components. The more areas of compatibility, the stronger the foundation of the relationship will be. People can have differences, but it adds strain to a relationship. Observe and communicate, and hopefully, you will be able to catch differences early on to avoid pain later. Of course, these five basic rules apply to anyone looking at a potential partner.

Ruth

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Re: How Do You Deal with a Material Girl?
« Reply #3 on: March 08, 2011, 12:52:39 PM »
The best thing is to run away from them...they are hard to please. because there no satisfaction in their dictionary....

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Re: How Do You Deal with a Material Girl?
« Reply #4 on: March 15, 2011, 04:47:19 AM »
Material girls are superficial, misunderstood women, when you are committed to one, prove to her there are different ways to show love, and there is more than meets the pocket.

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Re: How Do You Deal with a Material Girl?
« Reply #5 on: March 21, 2011, 03:32:31 AM »
You are right Ruth.. good point.. but remember, some people are very hard to change or even make them understand their wrong and right...

Sarah Wilson

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Re: How Do You Deal with a Material Girl?
« Reply #6 on: March 22, 2011, 09:24:26 AM »
My friend was a famous gold digger, she is still a gold digger. I don't think that she will change. the funny thing is that her husband is aware of it.

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Re: How Do You Deal with a Material Girl?
« Reply #7 on: March 24, 2011, 03:50:36 AM »
[quote author=Sarah Wilson
My friend was a famous gold digger, she is still a gold digger. I don't think that she will change. the funny thing is that her husband is aware of it.

Your friend will regret it at later age. at a time. the husband is going to get tired of how material love when things change financially. been a material woman/girl is not really a good option in marriage or in relationship.


 

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